A TRUE LOVE OR A GAME

Love a word  which takes every teenage girl to their dreamworld . It starts from this age itself.When we grow up and reach the age of puberty,our minds and emotions react in different ways , our desires and expectations increases, our wants from life increases.It is this time when opposite  attraction between girls and boys takes place .

 Initially we consider them as friends but as days  , months , years passes by we consider them more than our friends and become emotionally attached o them .What is this "special" emotions which attracts us towards each other and we feel more close to them than our parents with whom we had spend more than 14 years of relationship .Maybe it is about sharing your feelings which is mainly kept as secrets from our parents , there are loads  of things which we don't share with them as we know that they will react negatively about it and this builds a gap and we start sharing our problems with friends  who console us and behaves like a good listener without reacting in the same manner as our parents does , they makes us feel happy even in the sad situation  an as they understand our feeling e become close to them.

Thus when a new person knocks in our life we think more about him, gather all our memories starting from small pranks to laughing , giggling , sharing secrets and moreover when we think about the situation when he used to support  us we get deep into the thought and think more about him/her and it is this time when we enjoy music , even those music which we never used to like , we get lost in other world while thinking about them and it is this age when other people think that it must be a matter of bf or gf which has led to the change in behavior . It is only this moment when we enjoy reading love story and start dreaming about our love story our " dream boy " , marriage and the dream continuously grows up . 

Some people get into a relationship too early and some bit late . Its is this time when they get into a relationship they have to face loads of ups and downs in life , some gets positive vibes and some get negative vibes they faces problems of permanent breakup , cheating , backstabbing , get ditched ad becomes lonely, when this loneliness captures the mind of people they get into habits of drinking, smoking and becomes depressed and frustrated with life and it is this time when maturity comes and the term " don't trust anyone "comes into play ,play of emotions takes place , when we are in this age we forget about choosing the right person as to deciding who is genuine person and who is not  and most of the time we realize it very late that it was not love , but it was a game where either the boy or the girl was changed like clothes and all this worst situation pulls us down , facing lack of concentration , emotional break down and failure in career. 
Well every worst situation makes a people more strong , after facing the emotional failure some people become more strong and some suffer and try to find emotional support , which is not always available in true sense .
Whereas the are some love stories where the 3 words of love are yet unspoken it still haunts them in their mind , life goes on but they don't forget the image of their love whom they were not  able to confess , now this was the true love where the person remained in his mind and the love dint die they  still find happiness by just having a glimpse of that person , not confessing your love happens mainly due to ego problem or the fear of hearing " no".

The only Solution to fight such kind of problem is 1: Maintain a distance 2: don't get emotional attached to anyone 3: don't hide your feeling within yourself it's better to hear " no"  than getting  overcrowded by thoughts , guilt and regrets 4:be a good observer 5: don't trust anyone completely 6; don't expect any thing from relationship as it will lead to emotional breakdown 6: don't be so imaginative about a relationship as it is very uncertain 7:Get more involved with your work so that you are not driven away by the thoughts of your past 8: don't be a emotional fool 9: why to think of so many people when ultimately you will have one husband and still the change in time  and nature of person ( changing nature of person is uncertain) will make you realize  one day that you have to live your life , fight with your life alone .
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IS KNOWING ENGLISH NECESSARY OR NOT

IS KNOWING ENGLISH NECESSARY OR NOT 

Is it necessary to know English for communication ? If it is necessary then how many people know English , and speak in daily life in English ? Well the answer is not everyone .Speaking in English has become a trend , a passion , a language to match the society ,It's just to show how modern you are .Most of the time it has been found that children in modern era  find out very disappointing about the fact that their parents cant speak in English  hey thin that it will make their head down in-front of his other friends , and even in colleges it is found that people make fun of those students who cant communicate in English , in colleges and schools where mainly group ism takes place students like to include only those friends who are over smart , can speak in English and has a snobbish living .Before independence everyone used to speak in their mother-tongue its only when British started ruling us , it was a necessity to know English as it was made compulsory language , so people started up with this trend of English .
Well the solution to this problem is All U have to have is self confidence , if u r confident about yourself that the medium in which you are speaking is acceptable and approachable to people then its so well so good , what is important is your words are understandable y latter ( audience ) what is more important is you speak sense , and your lecture consists of material , logic and meanings then everyone will like to listen no matter in whatever language you are speaking , Well in a place like India where everyone mother tongue is  Hindi , Marathi , Bengali , Urdu e.t.c .A common language that is understood by everyone is Hindi so in a place over here its not necessary to know  English only .Well I am not completely disagreeing with the fact the English should be boycotted as a language but instead i want to draw your whole attention to the point that there is nothing to feel shy about not knowing English , but instead you can communicate with people in which ever language you feel comfortable with and simultaneously if u have the eager to learn English then you can learn that in any age , there is no age limit for education and language . A movie which inspires this kind of situation is English Vinglish here this movie revolves around the story of a women who is a housewife from profession , both her children's and husbands are well educated and they make fun of this lady just because she don't know how to speak English , even her children insults her for the same reason , a turn took place in her life only when she went abroad to attend her cousin's wedding and she thought of learning English , when she had started learning English , she dint knew how to speak the basics even properly , she used to speak in her mother-tongue  and in  broken English , and it was not that people used to make fun of her but listen to her as she spoke sense , and ultimately she proved herself that she can speak English when her child challenged her in cousin's wedding that her mom cant speak English , and she proved herself by speaking proper English .The Villagers who don't now how to speak English it doesn't mean that people don't speak to them , but people does speak to then in their own language  and even when foreigners come to India they have the desire to learn our language , desire to learn new language . Then why is it that we only have to show that how forward we are by speaking in English , we can show that how creative and talented we are by speaking in our own language .

TRUE FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND

FRIENDS 

"True Friends are hard to find ".When we enter school we meet new people ,rather than spending most of the time in home we spend most of the time in school, colleges and offices and thus once we start sharing our personal life our secrets of life with others apart from our parents and when we find that person being caring , understanding your problems , being your supporter , spending those small fun moments before we reach the teenage , age of maturity we like the term friendship but as we grow up and see the harsh competitive world around us we understand the true meaning of friendship.True friends are very difficult to find , where in this world you will find a person whom you can believe blindly , where will u find a person who will think about you first then about themselves , who can think that let my friend succeed and i will see him getting success , who will think about filling your appetite first then their , if you are in a very poor state and latter is quite rich do u think that person will give a major part of his wealth to support  your family . A Question : who doesn't want ti live a lavish life ? who doesn't want to be a emperor ? who doesn't want the opportunity to be famous and popular ?who doesn't want to be a topper ? The answer is everyone wants that , no one wants to live a life of misery not even beggar and the resources are so limited that they fight among each other to gain profit which gives rise to the feeling of cheating , betrayal , break of trust , enmity , directly or indirectly misguiding people ,backstabbing , demoralizing you , and who does all this , this is done by those whom we used to consider once a friend  as time passes by and we become busy people they don't have time to speak to you to care for you to just make one call and ask are you alive or are u dead , people pretends a lot , they might pretend that they felt very bad to listen about your death but inside them they will think thank god one competitor is gone ..Each and every single person will criticize at back of you and pretend something else in front of you , everyone will try to block your way and build their own way , its only the person who makes other person depressed , frustrated , and we build our own tension by thinking about people who wont be there at the end of our lives , when a person twist their emotions from situation to situation and remembers you when they need your help and not other way round i don't consider that person as friend , why should i waste my time about dreaming about those person , imagining about those past moments when we used to spend , when in reality we all have to face the baits from one another ?The problem is :1: We get too much emotionally attached to someone by sharing our feelings that we build a complete trust on them and ultimately that get spread through gossips , and a whole fun is created about your feelings 2: expectations from others is the biggest enemy , why cant we become practical and think that everyone has their own life , family  where first they will think about themselves and wont give importance to others , then only thing they will do is to break through your success and try to grab an opportunity for themselves

and very next day forget you .3:Imagining and Thinking about a person unnecessary : most of the time it is seen that people think unnecessary things a lot , like what moments they had spent , imagining that what is doing now , is he thinking about me , listening a music , seeing TV and imagining both of them in that place ,thinking that i will do this and this to impress him/ her , thinking that tommorow i will tell her this plan out to go out here and there without knowing that what is going on others head ,4:Helping too much is a harm as it makes others to take u in guaranty , being always available to a person will one day hurt u . Helping is good but not in all the situation , don't try to drag into a situation where u r trying to solve others problem and u fall into that trouble and the whole blames comes to u .Once u start helping people less u come to know who is good and who is not selfish 5:In this world not everyone is going to like u , so don't  think that what others are thinking about u , as what others are thinking about u is their problem and no yours , its not necessary that everyone will praise u but the reality is everyone will try to prove themselves superior and others inferior no matter how much close they are too u .6:You are your own supporters and your friends at the end of the day is breaker of your moral support by demoralizing you , choose a correct person and don't share your feeling with everyone as there is only few genuine persons .SOLUTIONS 1: don't be so imaginative about a person , as u don't know what is he thinking .2 : Don't get too much emotionally attached to a person that at the end of the day it will hurt u and each and every day u will think about that person building your ow tension .3 : U are your own moral support , don't think others will be available to u every time as this will build more negative thoughts about that person , and make u more wild .4 : separate the real life friends and reel life friends , as both are way beyond different .5 : Don't try to be available to a person every time 6:observe a persons nature carefully 7: don't expect from a person , as u will get disappointed .8: don't try to impress a person as at the end of the day every 1 will make fun of u, backbite about u .9: Consider God toe your best friend as he is the one who has made u and always do that what is good to u and he wont demand anything from u , but will always give u .10: Once u start considering yourself to be your best friend then you will give fuck to what people thinks about u .

Welcome to my blog share your problems and get a solution to that

SHARE YOUR  STORIES HERE

HELLO friends Welcome to my blog .Well this blog is about the Problems + Solutions .How do u define a problem .Problem can be anything which can be related t psychological problem , disturbance of your mental peace of mind , your sufferance , your approach to society ,your family problem , love affairs, so on and so forth , its unlimited . It keeps on increasing every single day , even every minutes , seconds , hours and then your mind get blocked by thinking about all the negative things of the day . Many a times we think that it's only Me who is facing this problem and no one else , but to be true when we communicate with others we come to know that it's not only us but even others are facing the same thing either in small package or big package , different people have different way to tackle their problem , for some it get solved while for others it don't .Rather than thinking about your problems in your mind and drawing all kind of  negative predictions while thinking about that it's better if u share your thoughts with others an d see what others have opinion about it . Believe  your half of the burden gets relief when you communicate with others and rather than being conservative you open up your thoughts , your felling about yourself even change , many a times it happens that people draws negative character sketch about themselves and think that they are the worst person and that's y they are suffering from those problems , but  when we learn how to accept even the worst things and give a positive approach to those problems then your tension is gone . So lets try how it works , post your problem , stories of your life and find out how many people have almost the same story , how did they solve their problem and what views and opinion do they have about your problems .
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