Every
changes brings changes in our mind, Behaviour and our way of thinking
Our
parents and our guardian says that when
we were small ( kids ) we where good by nature and would obey our parents and
do things as our parents would tell us .we where one of our parents favourite
at that time as we were innocent and even as a child we cared for our parents
as we felt protected in their arms and can’t
think of harming them even , but still different child had different nature ,
as we grow up different hormonal changes takes place inside our body and it
ultimately affect our mind our way of thinking and our response to each and every
situation .
When
we grow up and look up to the changing society
we get fascinated by the modern trends and the materialistic things of
others and we desire to get those things that others have and we don’t have and
we force our parents to buy those things for us which our neighbour or friends
have and to match the society we want such things from our parents which is not
possible for them to give us and our parents understands better than us what is
good and what foe us , but as we grow up our longing for things become so
important for us that we think that whatever we are thinking about us is right
for us and what elders are thinking about us is wrong and thus we tend to
follow a wrong path , and this is the time when we feel that our parents our
not giving space in our life and we start disobeying them and once we do that
our parents become strict with us and start limiting every facility in our life
and we think that our parents are becoming our enemy and we think that those
people who agree to what we say is our best friend , is the one who loves us .
When
we start going to the school we don’t
realize that we have step up in a different world , which we slowly change our
life and bring different changes in our way of thinking , we will gain
experience in life from better to worst and learn lots of lesson and slowly realize that the ones who had given us birth and kept us protected in their arm
where the true person in our life and the rest are fake person . when we enter
school there are some things which drives us more close to new person in life ,
our friends and draws us apart from our parents , the changes that takes place
in our life till we reach the puberty age are , we start living in a community
where we get exposure to meet both opposite sex , when we do friendship we
don’t realize the emotions that will capture our heart and mind , initially it
continues to me a normal innocent friendship but slowly when we get the
exposure of h entertainment world where every reality has been edited into a
dream world , a world which helps us to imagine , it can be any kind of movies
starting from love story , friendship e.t.c and thus we start imaging that our
real life is going to be the same as that of the life of theatre .And slowly we
get attracted to the opposite sex and slowly we get into some common habits
like chatting for longer time , roaming around with friends , sharing our
feelings , these common habits are we consider to be very common but these same
things are opposed by our parents and they give negative reply to whatever we
do and ultimately we feel scared to
share any feelings with our parents and make those topics secret of our life and only share with
friends and not with parents and thus we long for enjoying our life , thus as
we gradually grow up and become adult we become matured and even our instinct
to know about other things like society and about the function of human body
increases know as schopophilia where a
man desires to know the body functions of men and women , thus gradually our imagination
takes a certain height where we lack the emotional support and mental peace .
As we feel more attracted towards the opposite sex ,we lack the emotional
intelligence and even lack concentration and
thus when a child finds that their parents are not liberal and they consider about feeling our emotions and
our maturity as perverted things , then a distance is grown up between a child
and their parents and then they stop sharing their personal life problems with
them . Now this small thought a small change in latter’s behaviour brings
changes in our life, whereby some people that become independent and some
becomes more matured and practical, and some people they possess a very good
mind of judging people.
A
small change in society bring changes in people , whereby even now parents prefer boy more than girl and where
there are more than one sibling in society
and as we know that god has made every individual different from others
, so the nature and desire and dream of every individual are different though
they Have born in same family but they have different life , so if parents they
think that all their children’s are going to have same career like rest of them
then it will create a felling of enmity between siblings and they will find
their siblings as their competitors , especially in the family where there is a
boy parents starts comparing a boy and a girl child and shows that their son is
superior than their daughter and slowly a small change in society or a small
change in family situation , change in parents behaviour towards their child
brings a huge change in their child’s nature , it is usually seen that a child
whom their family used to consider inferior they not only become the successful
person in life but also the best person and this generally happen as the child
finds themselves isolated from family members and builds their self confidence
to prove themselves that they are best .
When
we start facing this wicked world then we realize that how each and every
individual can will change you and make a impact in your mind and transform you
to be a new person. When we look up to our society and desire to get some true
friends like that shown in movies and desire for a happy and settled life
getting what we want like our dream house , luxurious life , choice of our
girlfriend and boyfriend but in reality this are not possible as ultimately at
the end of the day we have to stand alone as we come face to face with the
realty that people are very self-centered , selfish , to make their own life
settled they spoil others family by doing betrayal and breaking the trust ,
backstabbing .Thus when this happens we bring out our aggressive behaviour and
this leads to the feeling of taking
revenge and then we realize our true potential and start developing ourselves
for doing better in life and thus this
changes brings changes in our mind , changes our way of thinking and ultimately
changes our life .
Life
is not what we imagine , life is what we face in reality and dream to change that reality into
positive way by applying it in practical life and in our day to day working .Life is what we
create by knowing the hard reality , the rough part of life . It is true that
to do something big in life you have to face the worst reality in life which
will ultimately motivate you to create something positive out of negative.
Sometimes
thinking about your past is not wrong , it reminds you of what wrong you had
done what are the responsibilities you
have left behind and that you should complete your responsibilities , it
reminds you of your some happy memory which makes you smile when you are lonely
and no one is there by your support ,it
makes you realize your mistake and makes you aware about not repeating
it again .Our every day to day action brings changes in our lie and something
we should remember is not to regret what we have done , not to regret even if
we have done something wrong because our every action , I repeat our every action every minute ,
every second of time is decided by god and the ladder of success comes with the
chain of our day to day action starting from our childbirth .Last but not the
least don’t imagine a person nature , a person action to be the same as what
you imagine , as this is not possible in reality as we cannot predict someone
mind so it is better not to think that everyone in this world will be good to
you.
